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\"Thanksgiving
Photo by Cottonbro on Pexels<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Thanksgiving is traditionally the time when we give thanks for the opportunity to slow down and spend quality time with the people we love. We crowd around the dining room table with our extended family, often adding a folding table or two at the ends to seat as many people as possible. We share the sofa with cousins and grandparents, eating out of the same bowl of chips and dip while watching the football game.<\/p>\n

This year, though, COVID-19 may preclude long-distance traveling and large gatherings under one roof. As the public health crisis continues, many families are left wondering how to celebrate Thanksgiving 2020 in a pandemic.<\/p>\n

With this difficult decision to make comes a great deal of stress, says Dr. Julie Bindeman, co-director of Integrative Therapy of Greater Washington<\/a> in Rockville, Maryland. She notes that many adults are feeling the pressure to have a \u201cnormal\u201d holiday in their currently abnormal lives.<\/p>\n

\u201cParents [are] trying to understand what the potential risks actually are, as information disseminated can be confusing and contradictory,\u201d Bindeman says. \u201cPeople are concerned that when flu season is in its peak, with COVID continuing to be a threat, that this might be one of their last opportunities to see older family members [before winter].\u201d<\/p>\n

Communication is key<\/strong><\/h4>\n

How you choose to spend your Thanksgiving will be based on your family\u2019s comfort levels, so communication is key. Bindeman recommends thinking about the following questions: What are your expectations from a potential trip or having visitors? What are people\u2019s COVID boundaries? What is considered acceptable risk for each family group that might be coming together?<\/p>\n

To help families start a discussion about COVID risks, Bindeman recommends the Quaranteam Calculator<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u201cSince everyone\u2019s risk tolerance and approach are different, it\u2019s best to discuss these protocols and rules of engagement early on. Guests can decide for themselves whether they are OK with them or not,\u201d says Vicky Choy, CEO of Event Accomplished<\/a>, based in Arlington, Virginia. Perhaps everyone will agree to quarantine for two weeks prior to Thanksgiving or to take a COVID test before getting together.<\/p>\n

If you decide to celebrate with extended family, Choy recommends keeping the guest count small and hosting outdoors when possible. In addition, think about how you can serve food and beverages to minimize touching the same utensils. Pre-plated options is a better idea than a buffet; individual servings, such as miniature pies, are a good option, too. Choy also recommends seating guests from the same household together and keeping the event short.<\/p>\n

However, don\u2019t be afraid to opt out of a family gathering all together. \u201cThat is a legitimate choice to make with the virus in the background,\u201d says Bindeman.<\/p>\n

\"New
Photo by Gabby Orcutt on Unsplash<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Create new holiday traditions<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Parents can still find many ways to ensure that a smaller-scale Thanksgiving is not only festive and memorable, but also safe.<\/p>\n

\u201cThere are so many fun activities you can do with children,\u201d says Zozzie Golden, senior designer at Innovative Party Planners<\/a> in Owings Mills, Maryland. Over the summer, when camp was canceled, Golden created a Color War competition for her grandchildren. Similarly, parents and kids could compete in Thanksgiving challenges or activities for prizes, such as chocolate turkeys, lollipops and holiday candies\u2014or even trophies.<\/p>\n

While parents are making Thanksgiving 2020 inventive, Heidi Hiller, owner of Innovative Party Planners, notes that the pandemic and travel bans could be especially stressful on older generations who are frustrated with their inability or inexperience to video chat. She recommends thinking about other ways to connect with these family members.<\/p>\n

\u201cThis might mean having your kids draw pictures, write their relatives letters or send them family photos and share what everyone has been up to,\u201d says Hiller. You may also want to mail homemade decorations in advance of Thanksgiving that loved ones can use as centerpieces on their holiday table.<\/p>\n

Read more: How to make gratitude a daily practice.<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Hiller and Golden are becoming experts in the art of celebrations in the time of COVID and are constantly seeking creative ways for clients to come together. For example, you could plan a series of short video visits throughout the holiday weekend or decide to watch the Thanksgiving parades in your pajamas with everyone on Zoom. You may also want to consider meeting virtually for Saturday game night, Sunday brunch or to shop online deals for the upcoming holiday season.<\/p>\n

And remember: \u201cChildren like structure,\u201d says Bindeman, \u201cso letting them know in advance what the plan is can be very helpful.\u201d Empower your kids by asking them what they find meaningful about Thanksgiving, and implementing some of their suggestions.<\/p>\n

The pandemic may be forcing us to reassess how we celebrate traditional holidays such as Thanksgiving, but perhaps this reassessment isn\u2019t a bad thing. \u201cDistill it down to the why and think about how to retain the why in a different way,\u201d says Choy. \u201cIs it really about the turkey and leftovers or is it about coming together as a family?\u201d<\/p>\n

A version of this story originally appeared in the November issue of Washington FAMILY<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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